Updated: Sep 1
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Suicide Prevention Week:
September 6 – September 12
At Oliver’s we see firsthand the devastation caused by suicide. Those struggling with suicidal thoughts can feel very isolated, but you are not alone. There are people who care and organizations ready to help. For those whose lives have been impacted by suicide, resources for attempted suicide survivors, and those who have lost a loved one to suicide are also available. Together we can provide hope to those who need it most.
Every year, approximately 4,000 people in Canada die by suicide, that is 11 people per day1. In 2018, 7254 Albertans visited the emergency department for suicide attempts; 50% of these visits were youth between the ages of 0-24 years2. 3 out of 4 suicide deaths are male, with almost 50% of deaths being middle-aged men ages 40-642. More Albertans die from suicide than car accidents2.
The Resource Centre for Suicide Prevention in Grande Prairie has many programs and resources available. Oliver’s also has a grief councillor ready to talk to you.
1. Government of Canada, Suicide in Canada: Key Statistics, 04/03/2020, https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/publications/healthy-living/suicide-canada-key-statistics-infographic.html
2. Alberta Health Services, Suicide in Alberta, 19/06/2019, https://www.albertahealthservices.ca/assets/healthinfo/ip/hi-ip-pipt-chc-suicide-infographic-2019.pdf
Article Written by Craig McFee
Funeral Procession: What is the Legal Etiquette?
Most people are not intentionally disrespectful of a funeral procession. Many people just aren’t sure what to do. The question is: who has the right of way and how do you recognize a funeral procession?
In Alberta only the first car in a funeral procession, also known as the lead car, is required to obey traffic stops. For example, if the lead car approaches an intersection on a red light or a stop sign, the car must stop. However, once the lead car enters the intersection on a green light or proceeds through the stop sign, the procession may follow without stopping, even if the light should turn red. All other traffic is required to stop and give the right-of-way to the funeral procession.
It can be difficult for regular traffic to recognize a funeral procession; however, there are some ways for the procession to aid the public. All vehicles in the funeral procession should put on their four-way flashers and their headlights must be on. The lead car will drive slowly, which will allow each vehicle to closely follow the one ahead of them. This will make the procession a tight yet consistent line through traffic, including intersections. Funeral homes often have magnets or flags that can be put on the vehicles within the procession to allow for easy identification to regular traffic.
The right-of-way is given to the funeral procession and regular traffic should not attempt to pass. Regular traffic is required to stop and wait for the procession to fully pass before resuming. However, each vehicle within the procession should drive with extreme caution and not assume that others will know the legal requirements of yielding to a funeral procession.
If you have any questions about funeral procession etiquette, please give us a call.
Article Written by Chris Clements
What is a Columbarium?
Columbariums are above-ground, outdoor structures made up of individual niches specifically for the entombment of cremated remains. Each niche houses one or more urns containing the cremated remains of the loved ones.
For those choosing cremation, Oliver’s owns and maintains its own Columbarium Walls conveniently located within both the Grande Prairie City and the Beaverlodge Town Cemeteries. Our columbarium walls are both warm and inviting, maintaining an atmosphere of dignity, and serenity.
While cremated remains can be kept at home by families or scattered somewhere significant to the deceased, a columbarium provides friends and family a perpetual place to come to remember and visit. Columbarium walls do not take up a lot of space and may prove to be a less expensive alternative to a cremation plot in a cemetery. To personalize your loved one’s memory, the front of each niche may include an engraving or bronze plaque.
Columbariums provide a distinct and dignified cremation interment option that blends elegantly into the natural landscape as an everlasting tribute to your loved one.
To learn more about Oliver’s Columbarium options please call us at any time.
We at Oliver’s have put together a wide variety of options to ensure your loved one’s final resting place is one that suits your family.
That is our promise to you.
Article written by: Tracy McFee
How can I honour my loved one’s life in the midst of COVID19 restrictions?
Current health and social conditions have inadvertently added more stress and uncertainty to our lives. Losing a loved one amongst all this can be even more devastating and overwhelming. Oliver’s offers a number of alternatives for honouring your loved one during this time.
Webcasting or Video recording:
You can hold a small family service and webcast it so others may watch. Alternatively, a graveside service may be held and recorded. The video of the service can be viewed online on the deceased’s obituary page within a few days of the service.
Viewings may be held with a small number of people to give family members a chance to say goodbye.
Although the cremation or burial may be taking place now, a larger service can be planned in the future. Oliver’s experienced staff would be happy to assist you in planning a celebration at a later date.
Services and gatherings are an important step in the grieving process, and we encourage families to celebrate the life of their loved one. We can help you navigate the added protocols and procedures while still ensuring a beautiful celebration of life.
Article Written by: Tina Wolfe
Wills, Living Wills, and Power of Attorney Many people struggle with establishing a Will, Living Will, and Power of Attorney. Even understanding the difference between the three can be overwhelming. Will: A Will becomes valid at the time of death and states a person’s wishes of how the estate is to be handled and distributed. An executor is also appointed who has the power to handle the estate. If no executor is appointed before a person dies, the family has to choose one. That person then has to apply to become administrator of the estate before anything can be done with it. Living Will: Indicates a person’s desires regarding their medical treatment when they are incapacitated and appoints someone to make medical decisions for them when they are medically unable to give informed consent. Power of Attorney: Gives another party authority to take control of all or a portion of a person’s financial and legal affairs. This can be short-term while the person is out of the country, or long-term during a time of incapacity. This allows bills, taxes, banking, etc., to be taken care of when the individual is not able to do it themselves. Establishing each of these can be a daunting task, but they are extremely important. It’s easy to put it off and say “Someday I will deal with it, maybe when I’m older” but you never know what tomorrow will bring. Having your affairs in order today can give you and your family peace of mind; it only takes an hour of your time and at an affordable price. If you would like help with setting up a Will, Living Will, or Power of Attorney, give Tina at Oliver’s Funeral Home a call and she would be happy to help you out.
Article Written by: Chris Clements, Tracy McFee & Craig McFee We are here to help As we continue to monitor and gather more information regarding the current pandemic before us, we at Oliver’s Funeral Home would like the families of Grande Prairie and the Peace Country to know that our doors remain open so we can continue to provide our caring services to those families currently experiencing a loss. Please know our staff is committed to providing a safe and clean environment during your time with us. The government of Alberta has restrictions for gatherings. We can work with you to provide the best options to you and your family that complies with the government regulations. For the time being, services may need to be postponed until this restriction has been lifted. We do still encourage services to take place as we believe it is an important part of the grieving process. As our number one concern is the safety of the public and our staff, we are trying to limit the amount of in-person contact to practice social distancing. We are able to conduct funeral arrangements and provide other assistance by telephone, email conference call, or video conference (such as Skype or FaceTime). If meeting in person is best, we have increased sanitary practices in place as well as hand-sanitizer available. As we continue to monitor the situation closely, we will provide ongoing updates as needed. We thank you for your patience and understanding during this time.
Living Well & Leaving Well Seminars
Funerals, wills, and estate planning can be a daunting task. How do you even know where to start? Oliver’s will be hosting a series of free seminars across the Peace Country to help answer any questions you may have. Topics covered will include:
• Power of Attorney and Personal Directives
– Learn how these planning tools benefit
• The facts about Probate and your estate –
A simple overview to make things easier
for your loved ones
• Cremation and Burial Pre-Planning – How
to avoid the most common mistakes and
• Simplifying Your Executor’s Job –
Removing some of the stress of estate
• Wills - Where to start, why they’re
Seminars will take place on the following dates and locations:
Oliver’s Funeral Home, Grande Prairie:
Wednesday, March 4th, 7:00pm
Spirit River Centennial Hall:
Tuesday, March 10th, 12:00pm & 7:00pm
Valleyview Public Library: Wednesday, March 11th, 6:30pm
DeBolt Centre: Monday, March 16th, 6:30pm
Saddle Hills County Complex: Thursday, April 16th, 7:00pm
Bezanson Memorial Hall: Wednesday, March 25th, 7:00pm
Big Horn Seniors Club, Grande Cache: Wednesday, May 20th, 12:00pm
Grande Cache Rec Centre: Wednesday, May 20th, 7:00pm
For more information, and to register for your free seminar, call 780.532.2929 or visit oliversfuneralhome.com/seminar
RSVP required by phone or online. Late registrations will be accepted based on availability.